THE NARCISSISTIC PARENT (Abuse suffered from a Narcissistic Parent is one of the
most insidious, horrendous and treacherous forms of child abuse)
THE NARCISSISTIC PARENT (Abuse suffered from a Narcissistic Parent is one of the
most insidious, horrendous and treacherous forms of child abuse)
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Malignant or Toxic Narcissist Parents
Family Motto: You live to serve me.
These Narcissistic parents treat their children as slaves.
https://www.quora.com/What-personality-disorders-are-common-in-children-of-Narcissistic-parents
Australia has a strong legal response to slavery and trafficking.
Narcissistic Parenting, Emotional Incest, and Complex-PTSD (SLAVERY)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aIdf5PDU0ng
Parentifying: The Upside-Down Parent-Child Relationship
8 Common Long-Lasting Effects of Narcissistic Parenting
Adult Children of Narcissists Face Trauma-Induced Health Risks
Why Narcissistic Parents Infantilize Their Adult Children
https://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2016/07/27/why-narcissistic-parents-infantilize-their-adult-children
When a narcissist is a parent
https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/08/when-the-narcissist-is-the-parent
THE EFFECTS OF GASLIGHTING IN NARCISSISTIC VICTIM SYNDROME
What is “Gaslighting”?
http://narcissisticbehavior.net/the-effects-of-gaslighting-in-narcissistic-victim-syndrome
Daddy Issues: How Daughters of Narcissistic Fathers Can Cope (Part 2)
Her sexuality and interest in boys (or girls) as an adolescent challenges this and compels him to police and shame her in unhealthy ways. He may have instilled in his daughter an overreliance on his approval that can be difficult to extricate from.
He may have substituted emotional connection with financial ‘generosity’ and control, teaching her that in order to be loved she had to also be ‘bought’ – and that, whoever did ‘purchase’ her was entitled to her.
By degrading or devaluing them sexually, they maintain control over their daughters in ways that are damaging beyond words.
Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents Learn to be People Pleasers
http://randigfine.com/adult-children-of-narcissistic-parents-learn-to-be-people-pleasers
The Narcissistic Family Tree
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-legacy-distorted-love/201105/the-narcissistic-family-tree
Narcissistic Family Unit: The Scapegoat Child Role
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EyJdaZLrteU
Are You an Adult Child raised by a Narcissistic Parent? Take This Brief Survey to Find Out.
http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/narcissistic-parent-survey/#.WeLGRMsUmM9
How To Spot A Narc on Social Media
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/how-to-spot-a-narc-on-social-media_us_58b96be1e4b02b8b584dfa80
Rules children follow in a narcissistic home
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHe3I6sPIiQ
How to Spot a Narcissist Online
https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/01/how-to-spot-a-narcissist-online/283099/
WHY The Adult Children Of Narcissists Are The Last To Know.
Why Narcissists Have Children
Why do narcissists even have kids in the first place?
I’m going to cut straight to the chase on this one. Narcissists do not have children for the same reason that emotionally healthy people do.
They have them because they need more mirrors, more images to remind themselves of how great they are and how they brought someone into the world that is like them.
Unfortunately for the narcissistic parent, this isn’t the case 99.9% of the time because as children age, they develop their own sense of self and their own personality apart from their parents. Then they become more of a burden than a blessing on their narcissistic parent.
Some narcissists become parents out of accident or because of an ill-thought out plan they created to have someone there to love and admire them without having to give it back in return.
They’re looking for the narcissistic supply which they try to obtain from anyone and everyone. They believe that having a child will give them an endless supply because their child must love them and has to be a part of their lives, while they’re young at least.
Narcissists see their kids as someone they can put their name on, a product that they can put out into the world with their branding all over it. They use their children to gain self-esteem and as someone they can easily walk all over.
They want their children to take care of them and reverse the roles of how parent-child interactions should be.
Narcissistic parents try to control their children in every facet of their lives.
They try to keep their children from growing up and gaining their own identity, fearing it will lead their children to leave them and go on to live their own lives.
Narcissistic Parents: Effect of Fathers on their Children - Part 1
Narcissistic Parents: Effects of Fathers on their Children - Part 2
The Child Victim of a Narcissistic Personality Disordered Parent
Narcissism: Effects of a Narcissistic Mother on Her Children - Part 1
Narcissism: Effects of a Narcissistic Mother on Her Children - Part 2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpea8rKTXQM
Victims of narcissistic abuse often appear uncertain of themselves, constantly seeking clarification that they haven’t made a mistake or misheard something. Confidence may be so low that they have trouble making simple decisions. They will not be aware that this is caused by an abusive technique called ‘gaslighting’. Gaslighting is a technique of psychological abuse used by narcissists to instil confusion and anxiety in their victim to the point where they no longer trust their own memory, perception or judgment. With gaslighting, the victim initially notices that something happens that is odd, but they don’t believe it. This moves to defence as the victim fights against the manipulation. Confusion sets in after incessant comments such as: ‘You’re too sensitive’, ‘You’re crazy’, ‘You’re imagining things’ or ‘I never said that.’ Gradually, the victim cannot trust their own perceptions and doubt themselves. This often leads to depression. Broken and unable to trust themselves, they isolate themselves further. The victim now doubts everything about themselves, their thoughts and opinions, their ideas and ideals. They become co-dependent on the abuser for their reality.
Narcissistic Relationships: Control - Walking on Egg Shells
Infantilization-An abusive tactic of narcissistic parents
A very insidious form of abuse that narcissistic parents use against their children. In this video I talk about this abuse tactic specifically when the child is a teenager or young adult.
Narcissistic Parents Want You to Remain Their
Psychological Slaves.
A very subtle way to create damage in children is to turn the chosen scapegoat
child into a parent.
This process is called parentification, not to be confused with parenting. In
parentification the parent gives up what they are supposed to do as a parent
and transfers that responsibility to the scapegoat child. Hence the scapegoat
child becomes parentified.
Emotional pain as real to the brain as pain from injury
The findings, recently published in Molecular Psychiatry by a University of Michigan Medical School team, show that the brain’s natural painkiller system responds to painful words and social rejection in much the same way it responds to physical injury.
Stop The Narcissist Now
Emotional Terrorism: Narcissists Who Gaslight and Torment You on Social Media
http://queenbeeing.com/emotional-terrorism-narcissists-gaslight-torment-social-media
Linda Martinez Lewi Ph.D
Control Mechanisms and Controlling behavior
http://www.positive-parenting-ally.com/narcissistic-parents.html
Infantilization-An abusive tactic of narcissistic parents
A very insidious form of abuse that narcissistic parents use against their children. In this video I talk about this abuse tactic specifically when the child is a teenager or young adult.
20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You
Why Narcissists are Addicted to Pornography
Narcissists do not see women in a healthy way. They are unable to see a woman as cute (i.e. sweet) and sexy at the same time. No, narcissists categorize women into one of two separate categories—saintly or sexy. They have a very difficult time seeing a woman as both. To them, a woman is either one or the other, but never both. This is what psychologists refer to as a Madonna-whore complex.
https://www.lisaescott.com/2009/06/02/why-narcissists-are-addicted-pornography
Study: Narcissists Watch More Porn Online
Since Narcissus fell in love with his own reflection, narcissism has been tied to sex. Put narcissists in front of the Internet, and new research shows that they satisfy their preoccupation with sex by watching more porn.
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Australian Health Directory. Medical specialists – Psychiatry, There are close to three thousand practicing psychiatrists in Australia.
http://www.healthdirectory.com.au/Medical_specialists/Psychiatry/search
What Happens To The Children Of Extreme Narcissists?
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/marcia-sirota/children-of-narcissists_b_14962180.html
The False Self – Narcissism or Codependency
Narcissistic Defenses – The Need to Feel Good at all Costs
Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents, Narcissistic Personality Disorder or NPD: Abuse suffered from a parent with NPD is one of the most insidious, horrendous, and treacherous forms of child abuse.
For more information view this website:
http://randigfine.com/adult-children-of-narcissistic-parents
How to Spot a Narcissist Online
Studies have shown narcissists post more self-promoting content on social media, but it's not always so easy to tell if someone's doing it for the attention.
https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/01/how-to-spot-a-narcissist-online/283099
Narcissistic Parent Answers
https://www.facebook.com/Narcissistic-Parent-Answers-140962406067146