THE NARCISSISTIC PARENT   (Abuse suffered  from a Narcissistic Parent is one of the

most insidious, horrendous and treacherous forms of child abuse)

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What personality disorders are common in children of Narcissistic parents?

Elinor Greenberg, Psychologist, Author, Lecturer, and Consultant on Narcissistic Disorders

https://www.quora.com/What-personality-disorders-are-common-in-children-of-Narcissistic-parents

 

THE EFFECTS OF GASLIGHTING IN NARCISSISTIC VICTIM SYNDROME

What is “Gaslighting”?

http://narcissisticbehavior.net/the-effects-of-gaslighting-in-narcissistic-victim-syndrome

 


What Happens To The Children Of Extreme Narcissists?

http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/marcia-sirota/children-of-narcissists_b_14962180.html

 

The Language Narcissists Use To Manipulate And Traumatize Their Victims


Have you ever encountered a narcissist before? Been a victim of one? Then you will want to read this.     All of it.

https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/3384/hidden-language-narcissists-manipulate-traumatize-victims




Denial is a big part of Codependency – denial that anything is wrong, denial of your feelings, denial about your childhood, denial about your romantic partners…whichever way you slice it there is a lot of incongruity between a codependent’s perceived reality and reality itself.


Emotional manipulators are drawn to codependents and vice versa. They have a lot in common. You have two wounded children playing out their dysfunctional tapes over and over again.


Both insecure, both desperate for love, both with a very low sense of self-worth and self-esteem. Both have an external locus of control, looking for love, happiness and acceptance outside of themselves. The differences lie in how they express those feelings and beliefs.


http://esteemology.com/how-narcissits-create-dependency

Am I Being Emotionally Abused?

Sometimes, the signs of emotional abuse aren’t readily apparent to the victim. Emotional abuse can come in many forms. It may be a peer degrading you, a boss or coworker berating you, a spouse or loved one belittling you, or many other possibilities. Unfortunately, because emotional abuse is often not as obvious as physical or sexual abuse, it can go unnoticed or ignored. However, it is not a less severe form of abuse. It is a valid and painful experience of being dehumanized or demeaned and the effects of emotional abuse can be devastating. Emotional abuse can also be difficult to respond to effectively because it can sometimes feel vague or subjective. As such, I will first explain the signs of emotional abuse, how to recognize it, and then discuss how to address it.

https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/mentalhealthtreatmentcircle/2015/09/signs-of-emotional-abuse

Narcissistic Victim Syndrome - the Fallout of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. A Powerpoint by Jeni Mawter  slideshare

https://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/narcissistic-victim-syndrome-a-powerpoint-by-jeni-mawter

           

When a Narcissist is in Power: 7 things that happen & 6 things you can do, If you grew up with one or two narcissistic parents, then one of the biggest “OMG not again”

http://thehappysensitive.com/when-a-narcissist-is-in-power-7-things-that-happen-6-things-you-can-do



5 Damaging Lies We Learn From Narcissistic Parents

The effects of childhood trauma, including emotional neglect or abuse in childhood, can have alarmingly potent effects on our psyche as we enter adulthood

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/5-damaging-lies-we-learn-from-narcissistic-parents_us_586608e7e4b068764965c0ff?ncid=engmodushpmg00000005


“Gaslighting” is an expression that many people in narcissistic abuse circles have heard.


The term owes its origin to a 1938 play “Gas Light” and its 1944 film adaptation.


It’s the insidious way narcissists get us to doubt our own sanity, and cause us to be twisted and turned into not knowing what is real or not real.


Gaslighting is about untruths, or at the very least stretching facts. It is about punishing people and fabricating information to suit one’s own agenda.


It is about confusing you, stripping your power and getting you to distrust yourself.


It is about destroying your character to yourself and anyone else who will listen.


The trauma of gaslighting, is for all of us who have suffered it, unspeakable.


How do narcissists do this, and how does it impact us?


https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/gaslighting-how-a-narcissist-destroys-you-by-eroding-your-sanity




The Narcissist Test - How To Tell Where Anyone Is On The NPD Spectrum, Have you ever wondered if you or someone you know suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder?  This narcissism test contains the most extensive and comprehensive questionnaire you may have ever seen - 101 questions which assess the personality in many different areas of life.

This test allows you to find out where people fall on the spectrum of narcissism, all the way from a healthy sense of self, through to Co-dependency insecurity, to the pathological condition of Narcissism.

If you’d like to find out where you or someone you know is on the narcissism spectrum, then you must watch this week's Thriver TV episode. (25min)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rYskZ4OTew



How the narcissist keeps grown children dependent on them. Narcissists set you up to fail and then "rescue" you. Makes them feel powerful and important. It's hard to break free if you've been brainwashed from birth and grow up in a home with a narcissistic parent. (13:41) If you have a good friend or relative who knows the truth then you are not alone then you have a good chance of breaking free.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5rfOi83vh4



Your narcissist parents never loved you (11:08)


The realization hurts like hell. For me, it was like being hit by a truck mentally. I wish I came to the realization sooner. The truth had set me free.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKJTnIPOEg4



How You 'Supply' The Narcissist (6:54) What specifically is narcissistic 'supply'? How much of our behaviour contributes to validating the narcissists dysfunctional behavior?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJ60mCwcINA



WHY The Adult Children Of Narcissists Are The Last To Know.


As parents are in the unique position of raising programming educating and modeling to their offspring from birth... the children of narcissists psychopaths or bpd individuals, are often well into late adulthood before they have any realization at all that their perception of themselves and / or the world has been heavily or entirely influenced distorted and manipulated.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0bUVa4Yh31U



If Someone’s Truly A Narcissist, They’ll Never Do These 8 Things,  (4:13)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CV3tyE78Fg8


 


The Narcissist Parent’s Psychological Warfare: Parentifying, Idealizing, and Scapegoating.


http://narcissistfamilyfiles.com/2017/05/09/the-narcissist-parents-psychological-warfare-parentifying-idealizing-and-scapegoating


Sensitive Children and the Adult Child in the Abusive Narcissistic Home

https://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/10/sensitive-children-in-the-narcissistic-home


Children of Narcissistic Parents-The Way They Abuse Their Young


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLMGLBQn9Ek



Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents


Narcissistic Personality Disorder or NPD Abuse suffered from a parent with NPD is one of the most insidious, horrendous, and treacherous forms of child abuse.


http://randigfine.com/adult-children-of-narcissistic-parents



Narcissists Destroy Who they cannot Control, The narcissist has no use for the one he or she cannot control. If the narc in your life cannot control you, you mean nothing to them. (7:38)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8JAUzP4b1X0



Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents - Special Guest Jerry Wise, Relationship Expert, Life Coach.


Narcisissm is becoming a more understood problem. Have you ever wondered why you get stuck emotionally and why you are so emotionally hurt and senstive. Many grow up with one or both parents who are narcisisstic. This creates many problems for their children in their adulthood. Jerry Wise, MA, MS offers solutions and a path to recovery for those grew up with a NP (narcisisstic parent). For help contact Jerry Wise, MA, MS at 317-919-6264 or [email protected]


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sa5oEdTBkW0



Six Painful Core Issues for Adult Children of Narcissists


Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC is a relationship expert and works with clients all over the world to find an authentic self in spite of past abuse, trauma, and dysfunctional or toxic families. This video explains six important issues for ACON's to address, resolve and recover from. Contact Jerry Wise for one-on-one help at [email protected] or 317-919-6264 (USA). He helps clients online.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GgfehV-s8XQ



Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents: Taking Back Your Power


Adult children of narcissistic parents can be emotionally enmeshed with the narcissist in their life, to the point that they feel they have no power to break free and become self-differentiated. In this video, Jerry explains how ACON's can take back their power and achieve freedom from their narcissistic family member.

If you would like more information, or to make an appointment with Jerry, you can reach him at (317) 919-6264, or at [email protected].


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNWOfXPRNEs



'Who Is The Real You After The Destruction Of Narcissistic Abuse' ?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3UTLAlS_rk&list=PLffBQDx7tMZ-0t_a65cVstIsY1dMpz8uG&index=2



Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents: A Controlled Separation


In this video, Jerry explains the benefits of a controlled separation from narcissistic parents or family members for the adult child. See how you can remain emotionally connected without having the fog of your current relationship getting in the way. And if you'd like more information or to contact Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC for an appointment, you can call him at (317)919-6264 , or email him at [email protected].


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6WiZ2bOkho&index=16&list=PLffBQDx7tMZ-0t_a65cVstIsY1dMpz8uG



Adult Children Surviving a Toxic Family of Origin


Did you come from a toxic family of origin? Was narcissism, alcoholism, physical or emotional abuse, or other forms of dysfunction ever-present in your home? You have survived that, and in this video, Jerry discusses how you can heal without becoming disconnected from loved ones.

If you'd like more information, or to schedule a session with Jerry, you can reach him at (317) 919-6264, or [email protected].


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGwc35OQyF4&index=18&list=PLffBQDx7tMZ-0t_a65cVstIsY1dMpz8uG



Adult Children of Narcissists: Stop the Emotional Self-Harm


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxrZKojZARY&index=29&list=PLffBQDx7tMZ-0t_a65cVstIsY1dMpz8uG


 



Codependency and Guilt


STOP living your life in guilt and Codependency! Special Guest Self Differentiation Expert Jerry Wise, professional coach shares 8 WAYS TO OVERCOME GUILT caused by Codependency. Jerry Wise is a relationship expert in Carmel, Indiana serving central Indiana. He is a Codependency expert; he uses the most effective coaching to heal and overcome Guilt and Codependency---Bowen Family Systems Approach. Real and permanent change is possible. Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has a history of marital and family therapy, chemical dependency counseling, pastoral counseling, social work, and work with depression and mood disorders; he now provides coaching and counseling via Facetime and Skype for those outside the Midwest area, and out-of-country-clients. You can reach Jerry Wise at [email protected] 317-919-6264


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IoF-go8zx8&index=49&list=PLffBQDx7tMZ-0t_a65cVstIsY1dMpz8uG



Loving Yourself After Narcissistic Abuse--The Secret to Healing Codependency


Children of narcissistic parents tend to attract narcissists as partners. They also tend to present with high empathy and codependency. There are a few secrets to healing from codependency, I would like to share.

Codependents are often confused as to what it entails to be codependent no more. When we are codependent--we are codependent. It's not like we are codependent in our marriage and that's it. When you are codependent, you are codependent with everyone. It is the way you process information from the outside world.

To heal from codependency you must learn to feel your feelings--and accept them, opposed to denying or judging them. It sounds so simple, but it is not. Because we have been brainwashed to believe that what we think and feel is irrelevant, we do not have the data to know how to feel what we feel.

Thinking is not feeling.

So often we think that our thoughts are our feelings. But what most of us do not understand is that thinking about our feelings--is not--FEELING our feelings on a heart level. It's quite terrifying to feel the feelings that little child inside of us felt so long ago, when we were powerless.

It is helpful to remind ourselves that we are not 6 years old anymore and that we have already survived the worst of it. We have already lived through and survived the abuse from the past. Our goal today is to learn to allow ourselves the gift of integrating the past with our present, so we can finally live an abundant future.

Children of narcissistic parents, who are now suffering from codependency symptoms, may be struggling to learn how to love themselves after narcissistic abuse. Narcissists tend to attract people pleasers or codependent personalities. Because codependents are eager to please, because they seek outside validation, they are easy targets for narcissistic lovers, and friends.

It is not easy to learn how to love yourself after narcissistic abuse, but with the right codependency recovery tools, it is possible. It is even possible to find love after codependency.

Lisa A. Romano is a Certified Life Coach, bestselling author, and mentor. She is also the creator of the expert praised 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ZEShuOfk0Y



Narcissistic Parents Create Self Loathing Children--Healing Our False Beliefs


Do you secretly believe you are not enough? Do you secretly hate yourself? Do you struggle with self-esteem? Do you doubt you are worthy? Do you chase after perfectionism? Were you taught that your worth was conditional?

In this video I address YOU, my Youtube audience who so courageously ask questions and share your fears with the rest of us. This video addresses one of you who have brought the questions of perfectionism and self-hate into our forum here online. I hope that I do you all justice in explaining why so many of struggle with self-hate.

If you were raised to believe that love was not unconditional, you may have stored beliefs in your subconscious mind that MUST be uprooted and reprogrammed.


Children of narcissistic parents, who are now suffering from codependency symptoms, may be struggling to learn how to love themselves after narcissistic abuse. Narcissists tend to attract people pleasers, or codependent personalities. Because codependents are eager to please, because they seek outside validation, they are easy targets for narcissistic lovers, and friends.

It is not easy to learn how to love yourself after narcissistic abuse, but with the right codependency recovery tools it is possible. It is even possible to find love after codependency.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0o6hAsFCh4


 



Narcissistic Parents -- How To Deal With Narcissistic Parental Abuse


Narcissistic parents essentially teach us--their children, that who we are as individuals and souls is unimportant. Being born to narcissists means we have been born to people who are incapable of authentic love. This inability to connect on a heart level to our parents, makes us--the children feel and believe its all our fault. We are unlovable we falsely presume.

This one false premise changes EVERYTHING. It alters the way we view and feel about the SELF...which causes negative chemicals to be secreted in our cells. It suppresses neural activity in the brain, which enhances depression.

It is crucial to understand WHY we seek approval--and WHY we feel poorly about ourselves. When we understand why we are so sensitive--it helps us gain control over our vibrations--and thus our emotional set points, or our attracting points.

For more about attracting points--please refer to my book "Quantum Tools To Help You Heal Your Life Now"

If you are the son or the daughter of a narcissist, or you are a codependent and or an empath, you may find yourself feeling off balance when you learn that someone else does not like you.

Why?

In this video I will be teaching you why we sensitive beings are SO super sensitive when we learn that other people disapprove of us, and what we can do to help us maintain our own vibration.

The goal is to be in control of our emotions--so that we can raise our vibrations so high, that we resonate with abundance, health, and well being. We have the ability to turn on DNA by ensuring we keep our vibrational frequencies high!

Fear is the dark force that disallows us to become fully light body activated. Confronting that fear and the limiting thoughts that create the fears, is a key to emotional liberation!

Dear one--you are and always were and will be--ENOUGH!

Children of narcissistic parents, who are now suffering with codependency symptoms, may be struggling to learn how to love themselves after narcissistic abuse. Narcissists tend to attract people pleasers, or codependent personalities. Because codependents are eager to please, because they seek outside validation, they are easy targets for narcissistic lovers, and friends.

It is not easy to learn how to love yourself after narcissistic abuse, but with the right codependency recovery tools it is possible. It is even possible to find love after codependency.

Lisa A. Romano is a Certified Life Coach, bestselling author, and mentor. She is also the creator of the expert praised 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vayceTRmXww



How To Outsmart A Narcissist The Right Way


We all would have loved to be able to outsmart a narcissist in the times when they are hurting us and when we are under siege from their malicious behaviour.

But why doesn’t this seem to work? Why is it that many people don’t beat narcissists and in fact end up getting more abused when they try to?

To find out why this happens, and exactly how you truly can outsmart and win against a narcissist watch this week’s episode of ThriverTV


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cRWbonFA5sU


 


 



Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents


Narcissistic Personality Disorder or NPD Abuse suffered from a parent with NPD is one of the most insidious, horrendous, and treacherous forms of child abuse.