THE NARCISSISTIC PARENT   (Abuse suffered  from a Narcissistic Parent is one of the

most insidious, horrendous and treacherous forms of child abuse)

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THE LAW NEEDS TO CHANGE

Any adult child of a suspected Narcissist.



We need laws in place where the adult child can be taken away from the suspected Narcissist forcibly to be assessed by a professional medical person who is a professional in that field of Narcissistic Child Abuse, as the adult child has been used and abused, manipulated their entire life and do not think the way a normal person thinks as they think the way they have been taught and they have been taught so that the Narcissist can keep control of them and to continue with the abuse and manipulation of the adult child for the rest of their life.         



Daddy Issues: How Daughters of Narcissistic Fathers Can Cope (Part 2)

Her sexuality and interest in boys (or girls) as an adolescent challenges this and compels him to police and shame her in unhealthy ways. He may have instilled in his daughter an overreliance on his approval that can be difficult to extricate from.

He may have substituted emotional connection with financial ‘generosity’ and control, teaching her that in order to be loved she had to also be ‘bought’ – and that, whoever did ‘purchase’ her was entitled to her.

By degrading or devaluing them sexually, they maintain control over their daughters (or their sons) in ways that are damaging beyond words.

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/recovering-narcissist/2017/05/daddy-issues-how-daughters-of-narcissistic-fathers-can-cope-part-2/

 

THE EFFECTS OF GASLIGHTING IN NARCISSISTIC VICTIM SYNDROME

What is “Gaslighting”?

http://narcissisticbehavior.net/the-effects-of-gaslighting-in-narcissistic-victim-syndrome

 


What Happens To The Children Of Extreme Narcissists?

http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/marcia-sirota/children-of-narcissists_b_14962180.html

 

Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents and Mother’s Day
10 tips to help with emotional triggers and avoid an emotional collapse.
 
How Does a Narcissist Think?
Here is how narcissistic behavior is dangerous and harmful to others.
         
How a Narcissist Can Derail You
... and how to recognize the admirable traits that could make you vulnerable. 
  
The Destructive Force of Narcissistic Injury
What is it? How does it affect leadership and relationship?

 

    • Is there someone you know who is extremely self-absorbed? This seems to be the common understanding of narcissism. But, it’s not defining the real problem with narcissism.

    The label narcissist is used loosely these days, typically to indicate someone who is vain and selfish, but the personality disorder and the traits of narcissism run much deeper.


    Do You Feel Not Good Enough?


    Have you wondered where your internalized message of “I’m not good enough,” comes from? Do you feel you give life your best, work hard, try hard, but still can’t give yourself credit? Are you constantly beating yourself up and thinking that somehow you should be more, do more, be better, and you don't measure up in your own mind?


    Narcissists Are Not Accountable


    Lack of accountability is a pet peeve for sure, and also a common problem with narcissists. Although there are many disturbing factors in the personality of a narcissist, this one is tough to deal with in any relationship. It’s hard to understand. What is so difficult about owning up to mistakes when we’re wrong?

    What is the cornerstone of maternal or paternal narcissism? Do you worry you might be a narcissistic parent? Most of us with children hold the value that we would never consciously do anything to harm our children. When we do, even if unwitting, we carry guilt and heavy remorse.

    Adult children of narcissistic parents commonly grow up with this nagging feeling that they flunked childhood and it’s all their fault. They internalize the message they are not good enough no matter how hard they try.


    It’s All About Me! Recovery for Adult Children of Narcissist


    If it’s not one thing, it’s your mother!” I guess this quote came from Freud, the father of psychology? Well, that could bring a whole bag of analysis and interpretation, but what’s really significant for adult children of narcissistic parents is to embrace self-recovery.


    Grief Is Not a Mental Illness


    How to Deal with Loss in the Narcissistic Family

    If you had a narcissistic parent or if you just live in this narcissistic culture today, you may be wondering a lot about parenting and how to do things differently so you can raise a healthy, emotionally sound child.

    The most frequently asked question from adult children of narcissistic parents is whether or not to remain in contact with that parent and/or the rest of the dysfunctional family nest. It goes deep and is difficult to know what's best.


    The Narcissistic Family Tree


    Clinical experience and research show that adult children of narcissists have a difficult time putting their finger on what is wrong. Denial is rampant in the narcissistic family system.

    Are You Plagued With Self-Doubt?


    Adult children raised by narcissistic parents internalize negative messages about themselves that can be unwound and released with good recovery work.

    When Your Narcissistic Parent Is Sick or Elderly 


    Many adult children of narcissistic parents are finding themselves in the sandwich generation. Statistics reveal that one in eight adults are simultaneously supporting their own children and grandchildren while also providing assistance to aging parents.


    Narcissism is a serious disorder that has far reaching effects. Our obligation to understand demands informed awareness

    The disorder of narcissistic parenting creates significant emotional damage to children. If not understood, children raised by narcissistic parents grow up in a state of denial, thinking it is their fault and they are simply not good enough.

    Tiger Mom and Narcissism 

     

    While I would never diagnose anyone in the media without knowing or treating them, after reading posts on Tiger Mom, watching her on media interviews, and digesting the information...

    Q & A Corner: The Legacy of Distorted Love and Notes on Narc 


    I have been receiving emails from people from all over the world asking questions about their narcissistic families and relationships for quite some time now.

    Adult Males of Narcissistic Parents - The Double Whammy 


    Though I've mostly studied women, I have received numerous emails from men inquiring about the effects on males raised by narcissistic parents.

    The Haunted House of Narcissism


    What's your mask this year? Do you need one? Do you even want one?

     Child Sexual Abuse and Narcissism


    Narcissism is a serious disorder that has far reaching effects. Our obligation to understand demands informed awareness.

    Deep Insights into Narcissistic Parents: Going Behind Their Controlling Behavior and Mapping out Its Long Term Consequences

    http://www.positive-parenting-ally.com/narcissistic-parents.html

    6 Ways That Narcissists Parent

    Narcissistic parents are control freaks incarnate, and their children must constantly refer to the script their parents have written for them.

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201509/6-ways-narcissists-parent

    Other information below about narcissist/sociopath

    Murder: Death By Covert Abuse

    Marc Hubs - Writer/Researcher on Mind, Science & Conspiracy. Author of Know Your Enemy: Reflections of NPD, the narcissist/sociopath


    https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/Psychological-Murder

    Narcissists are driven to succeed regardless of whom they hurt, lies they tell or co-workers they step on. They believe they are entitled to the best, given their superior sense of self. Even though the narcissist appears to be self-confident and secure, the opposite is true and a narcissist needs constant praise and affirmation due to a lack of self-esteem.

    Given that they feel bad about themselves, they desire to make those around them feel bad too. This leads to narcissistic abuse. The goal with this behavior is to feed the never-ending ego of the narcissist. If you, or someone you love, is in any type of relationship with a narcissist, proceed with extreme caution and prepare yourself


    https://nobullying.com/narcissistic-abuse

     

    What is narcissistic rage? 

    Narcissists are driven to succeed regardless of whom they hurt


    https://nobullying.com/narcissistic-rage

      

    25 Signs of Covert Narcissism: A Special Kind of Mind Game

    A covert narcissist is the worst kind of narcissist there is. Like a stealth bomb, you can’t see them coming until they have left their destruction.


    http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/signs-of-covert-narcissism

    8 Signs of Narcissistic Abuse

    They're often charming, outgoing and idolized by others simply because they appear so perfect.

    But to you, they're anything but perfect.

    You're never at ease around the narcissistic person, and you can't pinpoint exactly why. You can't reconcile the “perfect” image most people have of the narcissistic person with your experiences behind closed doors.

    Worst of all, you feel like there's no one you can talk to about your problem with this person. How can you think such things about a person who's so admired by others?

    Rest assured you're not alone.


    https://liveboldandbloom.com/11/emotional-abuse/narcissistic-abuse

    ABC on SoundCloud.

    Narcissism and psychological abuse

    Psychological abuse is part of Australia's unacceptable level of family violence. It's particularly challenging to recognise and often hidden behind closed doors. All in the Mind speaks to a family therapist who casts light on the manipulative, narcissistic techniques used by some perpetrators.


    http://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/allinthemind/narcissism-and-psychological-abuse/6991620

    Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) Mind Health Australia.

    Personality disorders are a group of conditions that affect people’s thoughts, behaviours and emotions in long-term negative patterns that occur in all areas of life.

    People with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) may appear arrogant, with an inflated self-image and disregard for the feelings of others. This disorder can cause socially destructive behaviours that damage relationships.

    NPD is part of the cluster of personality disorders with symptoms of intense and unstable emotions and a distorted self-image. It’s a rare disorder, affecting more men than women and is usually evident by early adulthood.

    The nature of NPD symptoms means it’s hard for people who suffer from the disorder to realise they have a problem. When you believe you’re better than everyone else, why would you think there’s anything wrong? It is often the family or loved ones who are most aware of this problem and who also suffer the consequences.

    http://www.mindhealthconnect.org.au/narcissistic-personality-disorder-npd